Comfort in good times and bad Lionel Windsor

Lionel Windsor

Sometimes we all need a little bit of comfort. Comfort comes in all shapes and sizes for different people. Where do you find comfort in life? In playing a sport? In getting a hug? In eating a particular food? In the presence of friends and family? In drinking a cup of coffee? In your relationship with your spouse (Gen 24:67)? In receiving forgiveness from a brother (Gen 50:21)? In a good long sleep (cf. Job 7:13)? In a tidy house?

Finding comfort is particularly important for us when life is tough. Sometimes we need a bit of comfort just to stay sane—to keep going in the face of whatever stress is bearing down on us and causing us grief or loss.

The words of Isaiah spoke a message of great comfort to the people of Israel: “Comfort, comfort my people, says your God” (Isa 40:1). The prophet was addressing a nation in exile here—a nation that had been torn from their homeland, treated as slaves in Babylon and stripped of all that they held dear—a nation living under the judgement of God. They cried out for an end to their plight, so God sent them a message of comfort. And where was their comfort to be found? Where were they to look for the end of their warfare and judgement?

A voice says, “Cry!”
  And I said, “What shall I cry?”
All flesh is grass,
  and all its beauty is like the flower of the field.

...

The grass withers, the flower fades,
  but the word of our God will stand forever.

(Isa 40:6, 8)

Israel was told to look not to human solutions, but, instead, to the promises of God. Their history taught them that the powers of this world that look so strong (Assyria, Egypt, Babylon, etc.) would all ultimately crumble. Only God's promises—his promises of forgiveness and glory for Israel—would stand forever. Only God's promises are reliable. Israel's comfort lay in the promises of God. Isaiah then went on to speak of the coming of a suffering servant—one who would be afflicted, and yet whose afflictions would bring about the end of God's judgement for his people and the dissemination of God's glory in the world (Isa 42, 49, 53). Here lay the comfort of Israel—the promise to which faithful Israelites pinned their hopes (cf. Luke 2:25).

Hundreds of years later, Paul, an Israelite, wrote a letter to comfort a predominantly Gentile church in Corinth. It was a church that was grieving—a church that had given him personal grief—a church with whom he had had a very rocky relationship personally—a church which was disappointed and hurt by his actions. It was a church that needed comfort. Paul discerned that the comfort the Corinthians needed was exactly the same comfort that he received from God:

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. (2 Cor 1:3-4)

What was this comfort that Paul received and which he passed on to his troubled church? It is the same message of comfort that God spoke to Israel through Isaiah—that the suffering of the suffering servant leads to the fulfilment of God's promises, that God will fulfil his promises of salvation despite (and, indeed, through) suffering (2 Cor 1:5-7), and that all the promises of God find their fulfilment in the Son of God, Jesus Christ (vv. 20-22).

This is important to remember in a world that seeks to find its ultimate comfort in the things of this world. It is good and right to enjoy the good things of this world, and find some measure of comfort in them (sport, hugs, food, drink, friends, family, coffee, love, sleep and houses—1 Tim 4:1-5). But in all this, we must remember that our final comfort—our ultimate comfort—does not lie in these things. These things are merely flesh: they are like the grass that withers and fades. Only the promises of God will stand forever. And so only the hope of everlasting life—of forgiveness—will give us comfort in our suffering.

If your life is reasonably comfortable now, I want to urge you to practise finding your ultimate comfort in the promises of God first, before things get tough. We need to practise finding comfort in Jesus' death for us and in the hope of glory through suffering. We need to do this in the good and easy times so that when the dark and hard times come, we are in the habit of seeking our comfort in the only place it can truly be found. If we build up a lifelong habit of seeking our first comfort from the things of the world, when the hard times come (and they will!), we will most likely (and even naturally) run to these things before we run to God. But they will not deliver for us. Indeed, they will disappoint and even enslave us. But if we find our true comfort in the great promises of glory and forgiveness proclaimed in the gospel, we will have joy even in suffering.

Sing for joy, O heavens, and exult, O earth;
  break forth, O mountains, into singing!
For the Lord has comforted his people
  and will have compassion on his afflicted.

(Isa 49:13)

5 Comments »

Josh Mansfield11/11/2008 07:47 AM

I thought it was interesting that you spoke of making sure that we find comfort in God BEFORE things turn pear-shaped in our lives. 

That’s the beauty of living in a country of hospitals, healthy food, bulk billing, psychiatrists, education and sanitation; we can live fairly comfortably for large periods of time. 

Originally I thought we should be thanking God for this (and yes we still should be), but as a Christian who has recently gone through some struggles of my own, and through these drawn closer to God, sometimes perhaps we should be brave enough to pray that God might test us with some suffering, so that we might call on the comfort that we can know he brings.

Not quite sure how that fits theologically… and not quite sure if I’m brave just yet…

Thanks for the blog.

Dianne Howard11/11/2008 08:53 AM

Hi Lionel
Thanks for your encouragement.

I was reading 2 Corinthians 1 this morning and was struck by the link between affliction/suffering for Christ and the comfort from God.

We are comforted by knowing that we and others will be delivered when enduring suffering for Christ. Comfort seems to be reassurance that we and others will be delivered from the difficulties that come from gospel speaking and living.

My hunch is we will not need comfort in thoroughly ‘good times’ ie heaven.

Comfort and pleasure are different things. The ‘easy’ times are often not ‘good times’ because like Paul says in verse 9, we tend to rely on ourselves rather than rely on God.

Rather, we experience the comfort of God now as we ‘patiently endure’ sufferings associated with gospel speaking and living in the hostile world, knowing we and others will be delivered from this suffering.

Many will give thanks to God when they see people blessed with this comfort (reassurance of deliverance) ‘granted (us) through the prayers of many’ (verse 11)

Di

Philip Griffin11/11/2008 10:04 AM

Your post is very timely, Lionel.  May I add this observation:
If we seek comfort in the transient things of this world then we will offer foolish counsel to those who are suffering or who may lose what they value in the future.

I’ve known Christians who have recommended overseas travel as a remedy to someone who has a broken heart, or a difficult family life, and I’ve known Christians to urge other Christians to pursue excellence in their career even if that means they have far less time for serving God’s people.  Then an economic downturn hits and the careerist loses his or her job. 

Let’s be sure we all heed Lionel’s exhortation, especially those of us who are Christian leaders.

Dianne Howard11/11/2008 12:43 PM

I thought the emphasis was on the comfort already received as Paul and Timothy endured suffering as followers of Christ. They were assured of deliverance.

‘Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ….who comforts us in all our affliction….
‘As we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too’

Anyone who shares in similar suffering, patiently enduring, will experience this comfort.

Praise God, the God of all comfort.

Lionel, thanks very much for that reminder.  I’m now living in South Korea with my wife and daughter, going through a very rough time, and keep looking to the things of the flesh to satisfy me. I needed to read your post, to be rebuked…  I almost wept when I read it!  Cheers.

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